Life is Art

I have decided we either need to, Plan A, have one more blond and perfect baby - then sell it. Or, Plan B (because I think Plan A is illegal and I know it's problematic due to my husband's lack of fertility), find a way to downsize our life. And by "downsize our life" I mean get rid of a vehicle (my husband's job requires him to travel so we probably will keep one for now), move into something smaller and out of town (perhaps the family vehicle!), this more modest abode maybe even requiring us to crap in a bucket and collect rainwater (Thanks K and T for your great ideas the other night!), and live like hippie scum.

My reasons are too myriad and tiresome (to me at least) to list here, and are not entirely financial. Although I wonder what it is about us Hogabooms that we can neither spend and live "within our means" like so many virtuous folk seem to do (or at least, like I'm led to believe they do), nor accept a high level of credit card debt like so many less virtuous (but arguably more typical) folk seem to do.

I can do it, though. I can do anything. If I can squat on the floor of my home and push out a baby, if I can convert my toddler and new baby to cloth diapers and be soaked in piss for two weeks as I figure it all out, if I can stop feeling sad I have crappy secondhand clothes and stinky four-year-old dyke martens, if I can accept the transition of working professional engineer to Houswife Nobody, if I can live with going from two incomes and no kids to two kids and one income, than I can surely go through all my stuff, cry real tears to let it go, and move into some goddamn shack. Can I live without a daily shower, without clean laundry, and without, dear God, without my Mac? I don't really see how. But perhaps it is my fate.

I don't know how to do it. I only know I (we) can. Except for thinking of living without my Mac. Anyway, I am this close to outfitting our van as a half-assed camper and parking somewhere.

Tonight my husband and I were gifted with tickets (ala his workplace) for "Dinner and A Murder" - the first annual - a $50 per plate benefit that, yes, involved a murder play "whodunit". Which I'm proud to say I cracked the code for and came up with half the theory, and was only led astray because a member of the cast fucked up and LIED to our sleuthing group, but that's another story. Unfortunately - in front of respected members of my husband's employer, I said something about Ralph's butt looking good in his pants - please understand I had not a drop of alcohol - and although I got some shocked looks, then uproarious laughter, and although I apologized for my random sexual harassment, I couldn't help feeling like the girl I was several years ago had channelled herself through me but at least my tablemates seemed to like her.

Labels: burnout, family life, hilarity, i'm a hater, party animal